Things You Need to know before getting involved in a relationship with a broken person
It is very important to have trust for keeping a strong relationship. It is much better to develop trust at the very beginning of a bond, so it will be fruitful in the long run. It is observed that trust is a common issue among many couples. Trust is one of the basic reasons for many breakups and strong relationships. No matter how much people pretend they are over their last relationships and have moved on, it actually affects them at some point in life. It is always harder to trust a new person after being hurt before.
There is always this fear of getting hurt and cheated again. It is actually horrible to imagine someone you like cheat on you or break your heart. It does not really matter how strong one looks, but deep inside people may be too sensitive and emotional. Breakups can terribly affect the strongest persons leaving them broken hearted.
You might be dealing with the same situation in life right now. It becomes quite annoying and tiring when you want to start a new relationship but you feel scared at the same time. You might feel that you are stuck in between accepting the fact that you are in love but at the same time you think you should not get involved in this matter again. You truly feel inside that this is the right person for you but something holds you back. You may have found your true soulmate, the one you want to live with your whole life, cherish good moments, grow old together and bear hard times etc.
You may have come across the following major points in life described below:
1. Uncompromising Nature
A person can be less compromising not because he or she is selfish. Maybe, it is because of the fact that this individual had each and every piece of benevolence drained out of him or her in his or her past relationship. Therefore, it is better to give some time to develop trust and grow mutual understanding.
2. Trust issues can cause a lot of problems!
It is true that it is very hard to gain someone’s trust. But one must always invest time to establish trust. It is important not to think about being hurt again.
The thought of being cheated by someone you truly love is horrible. But you must give that person time to develop trust because it will be worth waiting. Because when somebody is damaged in that way, procuring his or her trust can be really hard.
3. Harder to Accept the Change
It is always terrible to face loneliness. People get used to each other’s company and like living that way.
However, it would be a tragedy to force someone to get in your life. You must give that person time to make the right decision. No pushing. No pressure. Always remember, patience bears sweet fruit.
4. Say NO to Another Chance!
This is crucial to saving yourself from being hurt again. That person also has opinions about certain things. If your attitude is similar to that of the ex, be ready to be rejected. However, always be yourself. You have to develop understanding and love with time.
5. You only get one opportunity
That is same like not getting “another chance” phenomenon. You simply have to be careful this time. Do not ever lie or do senseless stuff. Just be nice. Be your true self. Everything will go smooth. This person does not want any dangers again.
6. No Expectations
It might be hard trying things for the first time for everyone. But never ask that person to change his or her choices for you. It is something you will build with devotion and trust.
Keep doing nice things without expecting anything in return. You might find that person doing the same for you.
7. Walking away
The person you like has already struggled hard moving on from past relationships which meant a lot. It is not something new to him or her. This person knows how to walk away if the relationship is not right. It may be difficult at the start, but it is better in the long run. It is hard to face this. However, if you believe this is the right person you want to live with forever, you can always find ways to solve the issue.
If you have pure intentions, you will be successful. Believe in the fact that you do not only want to win the challenge, rather you are fixing it to build the honest relationship you want.
There is nothing like struggling for true love till the end. Stay honest and never lose hope. It would be all worth it in the end.
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